途經一程山水，抖落一地風塵
人不怕忙時的雜亂，只怕閑時的孤單。一個在回眸里輾轉，一個遺忘從前，彼此詮釋著塵世里的擦肩。你離去不曾後悔，我轉身沒有皺眉，原來相遇就是一場誤會，所有的傷悲只是一次宿醉。
生活只有兩種狀態，一種是為自己活著，一種是為別人裝著。人生最痛苦的事，是那人傷你到了靈魂，你卻無法移情半分。不是所有的相遇都美麗，不是深愛就可以在一起。不能祈及的、也是最無法忘記的。春天遇見一陣風，腳步卻不能隨著季節遷移，諾言不代表歸期。
異鄉的土地，我還是我，就算燈紅酒綠，依然不會被同化。世界是叫囂的，心安靜如初。雖然拚命賺錢，卻對此並不看重，感情不會跟錢挨邊，就像在老家一個朋友說的一句話：你！是我見過唯一一個不會被錢砸倒的女人。不是做人清高，是我需要的、只靠自己的辛苦付出得到，這樣覺得心安。人活著，總要有些堅持，別讓骨頭軟了，尊嚴跌倒。從不輕易承諾任何事，因為說了就言出必行。沒想過以後大富大貴，與人攀比。四十歲沒進過KTV，不會唱歌跳舞，也許某些人會覺得這是死穴，跟時代脫軌，反正別人怎麼想與我無關，我有自己的喜歡和堅持，這就足夠了。時間，環境會改變許多，可你一旦清楚的知道要什麼，縱然是在夢裡，依然淡定從容。不會因為要去證明自己多優秀而拚命，只因行色匆匆加緊前行。女人的本事不是你花了男人多少錢，是沒有依靠一個人一樣可以活得很好。
轉眼間來到鄭州已經月余，亦如既往安靜存在。或許在哪心都是天涯，沒有落差。出來的時候，帶的東西不多，到這邊也沒買什麼，除了必須用的，我很節儉，可我記了老媽的銀行卡號兒子的電話，除了這些了無牽掛。沒有留戀，沒有期待，甚至除了媽知道我這次離開是真的一個人奔赴未知的所有，身邊的人都認為在鄭州有人在等我，我是尋了一個家。不想去解釋，走自己的路，對得起自己的心足夠了。四十歲，我活的沒了慾望，再多的錢都不會有驚喜，就是現在給我豪宅名車，我還是那個安靜的我，波瀾不驚的過日子，不炫耀，不攀比，真的成了一杯清茶，心沒了負重。
激情與我再也沒有了，我問媽:這是怎麼了，怎麼就會變成這樣了，是不是徹底廢了？這樣的年紀不該如此啊！媽說:這四年把你毀了，心都老了，這是滄桑過後，什麼都看破了麻木了。就是幾天不出門，也不會覺得憋悶，孤獨變成習慣很可怕，會屏蔽所有，試過走進繁華，接納燈紅酒綠的生活，可心知道，我根本就是一個奇葩，在哪都活在自己的世界裡。浮生一紙落花，再也沒有什麼放不下。無論是誰，都不要給我負重，不然我會消失，此地無她。為別人活累了，再不接受強加給我的碾壓，活著，我自私了.....
世道無常，人心異變，一個做錯事都不敢承認的人，他（她）註定做不了大事。或許是心性變了，真的做到了隨緣聚散，不挽留，不逢迎，固執的做了自己。下雨了，屋子很暗開了燈，隨便敲幾行字，用來供養自己的執著。人生若是少了一份堅持，無論做什麼都不會成功。有困難就要想辦法解決，而不是把難題推給他人，這世上最靠得住的就是自己。我能賺錢，可依然節儉，有很多事情要做，容不得浪費，不想什麼榮華富貴，我的原則就是：把自己喜歡的事干好，凡事盡量自己搞定，不求人。有錢不亂花，沒錢就不花。
誰都是從零開始的，不管你的從前如何輝煌，都與今天沒一毛錢關係，你的朋友再有本事那都不是你的能力，沒必要拿別人的成績給自己臉上貼金。有能力的人從來不提我認識誰，都是從別人仰望的目光里被烙印。任何時候尊重他人都是對自己的最大尊重，你開口閉口把人踐踏在腳底下，那別人眼裡你也一文不值。很多時候不做解釋，是那些流言蜚語本身就不在意，路是為了自己走的，目的與他人無關。總之不屬於我的我不要，你給的我還不起，我拒絕，這是生命的對等。
People are not afraid of busy messy, I m afraid lonely when idle. One in the review of the toss, a forgotten the past, each other interpretation of the earth in the wipe shoulder. You never regret when you leave. I turn around without frowning. It s a misunderstanding to meet. All the sadness is just a hangover.
There are only two states in life, one for oneself and one for others. The most painful thing in life is that man hurts you to the soul, but you can t empathize with him. Not all the meeting is beautiful, not deep love can be together. Can not be prayed, but also the most difficult to forget. The spring meet a gust of wind, footsteps but not with seasonal migration, does not represent a return promise.
The foreign land, I am still me, even if still not assimilated scene of debauchery. The world is shouting, the heart is quiet as ever. Although the money desperately, but this is not important, not with money Aibian feelings, like in the home of a friend to say: you! It s the only woman I ve ever met who won t be knocked down by money. A man is not aloof, I need, only rely on their own hard work, so feel comfortable. When you live, you must always insist, don t let your bones go soft, fall down with dignity. Never promise anything, because that was my word. Never thought after the end, comparisons with others. The forty year old was not into the KTV, not to sing and dance, maybe some people will think this is the bane to the era of derailment, what people think anyway, has nothing to do with me, I have my own love and perseverance, it is enough. Time, the environment will change a lot, but once you know what you want, even in the dream, still calm and calm. Not because to prove their good and hard, because the press on in a hurry to depart. The skill of a woman is not how much money you spend on men, but you can live well without relying on one person.
Suddenly came to Zhengzhou has been more than a month, as previous quiet existence. Perhaps where the heart is Tianya, there is no drop. Out of time, don t bring too many things, to the side of what to buy, in addition to use, I am frugal, but I remember my bank card number, the son of the phone, in addition to the free. There is no nostalgia, no expectations, even in addition to my mother know that I leave this time is really a person to unknown all, people around me think in Zhengzhou, someone waiting for me, I found a home. Don t want to explain, go your own way, enough to own your heart. Forty years old, I live without desire, more money will not be a surprise, is to give me the luxury cars now, I was the quiet I live, still do not show off, do not compare, really become a cup of tea, did not mind the weight.
Passion and I have no more, and I asked my mother: "what is this, how it will become like this, is not completely abolished?" This shouldn t be the case at that age! Mom said: this four years destroyed you, the heart is old, this is what they see through the vicissitudes of life after numb. Just a few days do not go out, do not feel oppressed, loneliness becomes a habit is terrible, will block all tried, into the bustling scene of debauchery, acceptance of life, can I know, is a wonderful, where they live in their own world. A paper flower, never put down what. No matter who, do not burden me, otherwise I will disappear, there is no her. I am tired of living for others, and never accept the roller imposed on me. Living, I am selfish...
This impermanent, people change, do not dare admit a person, he (she) is destined to do great things. Perhaps the mind changed, really do not retain, and revel, don t flatter, stubborn to do their own. It was raining, the room was dark, the lights were turned off, and some lines of words were used to support their persistence. Life without a stick, no matter what to do, will not succeed. If you have trouble, you must try to solve it, rather than push it to others. I can make money, but still frugal, there are many things to do, not to waste, do not want what my principle is: glory, splendour, wealth and rank, their love of things well, always try to fix yourself, don t ask. The money is not squandering, money is not spent.
Who is to start from scratch, no matter how brilliant you in the past, and no 10 Fen today, your friends no matter it is not your ability, no need to paste his face with other people s achievements. Competent people never mention who I know, and are branded in the eyes of others. Any respect for others is the greatest respect for yourself. You open your mouth and trample on your feet, and you re worthless in other people s eyes. Most of the time, the explanation is that the rumors themselves do not care, the road is for their own sake, the purpose is irrelevant to others. In short, do not belong to me, I do not, you give me can not afford, I refuse, this is the equivalent of life.
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