人真正變強大是拋開自尊心得時候

人真正變強大，不是因為守護著自尊心，而是拋開自尊心的時候。

——《請回答1988》

People are really strong, not because they are guarding their pride, but because they throw away their pride.

"Please answer 1988"

偶爾覺得媽媽很丟人，媽媽為什麼連起碼的臉面和自尊心都沒有呢？我都覺得上火。比起她自己，她有更想守護的，那就是我，但當時我並不知道。人真正變強大，不是因為守護著自尊心，而是拋開自尊心的時候，所以媽媽很強大。——《請回答1988》

Occasionally, she feels that mother is disgraced. Why does mother not even have the least face and pride? I feel like a fire. She had more to protect than herself, that was me, but I didn"t know it at the time. People are really strong, not because they are guarding the self-esteem, but the time of self esteem, so the mother is very strong. "Please answer 1988"

存在，不過朋友之間還是保持個度，再好的異性朋友，在對方談了戀愛之後都得保持距離，不要說什麼大家只是朋友，別人介意就是小氣。朋友的對象愛他(她)才會在乎這些事，你不祝福朋友，還摻和啥？當然，如果那人真有問題，你可以提醒。反正晚上約出來喝酒，失戀要他(她)陪啥的，最後在對方談了戀愛後別作死

But there is a good relationship between friends. It"s good for a heterosexual friend to keep distance after the other party is in love. Don"t say anything. You are just friends. Others mind is stinginess. If the object of a friend loves him (she) cares about these things, you don"t wish a friend, and what do you do with it? Of course, if that person really has a problem, you can remind. Anyway, night out drinking, he (she) to accompany the lovelorn to what, finally on the other side of love don"t die

大一一年，我很少主動給媽媽打過電話，總是媽媽打給我，噓寒問暖，問東問西，但總少不了一句「在學校常用腦多買點核桃吃，學校有賣水果的嗎？每天吃個蘋果，想吃啥就買啥，錢不夠了給我說」。

有時我會感到不耐煩，我會對媽媽發脾氣，大吼：「知道啦！知道啦！每次打電話你都說這個，煩不煩啊！」

有時媽媽也會問：「想家不，想媽媽嗎？」

我說：「不想，我誰都不想！」

媽媽開玩笑說：「我怎麼養了個白眼狼。」

是啊！你不僅養了個白眼狼！還養了個敗家子！

您辛辛苦苦省得每一分錢都讓我大手大腳地揮霍了，我買了皮膚，買了裝備。

您把最好的都給了我，我拿什麼回報您？爛透的成績嗎？最強的王者嗎？

我記得大一寒假在家，過年去看望姥姥，飯桌上舅媽讓我多吃點肉，說：「學校的伙食不好吧，你看臉都比之前瘦了。」

爸爸插了句：「學校啥都有，比家裡伙食好多了。」

您就生氣了：「你咋知道好，伙食好你兒子捨得吃嗎！」

爸爸硬犟，你們就吵了起來。

我沉默著一言不發，我不會好言相勸啊。

如果開學那天讓媽媽陪我一起來就好了，讓她看看這偌大的美麗校園，琳琅滿目的商業街，應有盡有的食堂，我想她一定會放心。

只不過如今想起，分外鼻酸。

而這些，是等到我體會了生活不易，看懂了人情世故，學會了察言觀色，才覺得我的媽媽不丟人，我的媽媽很偉大。

我的媽媽是這個世界上最愛我的人，而我嫌棄媽媽土，這都是我錯了！

One year, I seldom give mom a call, my mother always calls me, being, asking questions, but there will always be a "common brain in the school to buy more to eat walnuts, schools have fruit? Eat an apple every day, want to eat what to buy, money is not enough for me to say.

Sometimes I feel impatient and I will lose my temper with my mother and yell, "know it!" I know！ Every time you call this, you don"t bother. "

Sometimes the mother would ask, "don"t be homesick, do you want to have a mother?"

I said, "no, I don"t want anyone!"

Mother joked, "how I have an eyed wolf."

Yes! You not only have an eyed wolf! Have a black sheep!

Every penny you"ve worked hard to save money makes me extravagant. I bought my skin and bought my equipment.

You give me the best, what can I do to repay you? Is it a bad result? The strongest king?

I remember visiting my grandmother in the winter vacation during the first winter vacation. My aunt asked me to eat more meat on the eve of the new year, and said, "the school food is not good, you see that the face is thinner than before."

Dad put in a sentence: "there is anything in the school, much better than the food at home."

You are angry: "how do you know, food good your son is willing to eat!"

Dad hard stubborn, you quarreled.

I am silent I won"t persuade them not to utter a single word, ah.

If I can let my mother come with me on the first day of school, let her have a look at this huge beautiful campus, the splendid commercial streets and the full dining hall. I think she will feel relieved.

But when I think of it now, particularly bisuan.

That is, until I feel life is not easy to understand the traditional code of conduct, learned to read, just think of my mom is not a shame, my mother is very great.

My mother is the one who loves me most in the world, and I dislike mother earth. It"s all I"m wrong!

媽媽對我的愛從來不計較自己的得失，而我對媽媽的回報在拋開自尊心的時候，才會開始。

小時候不懂，長大了再去看，只會在夜裡流淚，以前的自己對母親種種不是的討厭也都是自己自欺欺人。

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