6個小故事，人生大智慧
1、目光短淺
古時候，朝廷派兩位使者出使高麗，一位正使，一位副使。
當他們結束訪問返回時，高麗國贈與他們許多禮品，正使並不在意這些東西，便讓副使負責管理。這個副使是個自私自利的小人，他把友國贈給正使的東西全放在滲水的艙底，而把自己的放在上面。
途中遇到了大風浪，為了安全起見，船主要求把隨行的東西拋到海中，以減輕船的重量。於是眾人紛紛把東西往海里扔，也顧不得什麼了，還是性命要緊。在剛扔到一半的時候，海上的風浪漸漸平息了下來，大家也靜下來，開始檢查自己的物品。
這位副使這才發現，自己的東西一樣也沒了，全被扔到了海里；而正使的禮品因為放在最底下，所以一樣也沒被扔掉。
【啟示】：心胸狹小、目光短淺的人總會弄巧成拙。心地博大的人總是事先想到別人，然後才是自己，當你心中裝著別人的時候，別人的心裡也正想著你。
2、最有力的說詞
羅馬教皇庇護十二世在講道時從來不看講稿，幕僚們都對他的記憶力很好奇，有一次他終於說出原因。
很早的時候，他每次都是看著講稿講道。在一次彌撒中他看著講稿講完道之後，忽然一個女信徒站起來，公開批評說：「如果講道的人自己都不能記住他所講的內容是什麼，他又怎麼能使別人記住呢？」
那位信徒的話讓他啞口無言，無比羞愧，於是他下定決心再也不看著講稿講道了。
後來，他在講道的前一晚，把講稿的內容記在腦子裡；再後來，他根本就不用再寫講稿了。
【啟示】：用空洞的語言來要求別人，只會適得其反；自己的行動和表現，才是最有力的說詞。
3、咳嗽的鸚鵡
有個人家裡養了一隻機靈可愛的鸚鵡。一天，來訪的朋友提醒女主人說：「你家的鸚鵡是不是病了，老是咳嗽，看起來很痛苦的樣子。」
夫人一聽，十分緊張，仔細留意後還真發現這隻鸚鵡有咳嗽的毛病，趕緊將其送往寵物醫院。經過獸醫的診斷，結果這隻鸚鵡很健康，一點毛病也沒有。
那麼，這隻鸚鵡又為什麼會咳嗽呢？其實，它並不是真正的咳嗽，而是，在學那個抽煙很兇的女主人的咳嗽聲。
【啟示】：當出現矛盾或問題時，我們總是把目光盯在別人的身上，指責對方的錯誤和過失，也許，真正的原因出自自身，只是我們從來都以為自己不會錯。所以，根本就不曾察覺到自己的毛病，更不會自省。
4、換位思考
王阿姨和李阿姨在小區聊天。
王阿姨問道：「你兒子還好吧？」
李阿姨嘆息回答：「別提了，他實在夠可憐，娶個媳婦懶得要命，不做飯、不掃地、不洗衣服、不帶孩子，整天就是睡覺，我兒子還要端早餐到她的床上呢！」
王阿姨又問：「那你女兒呢？」
李阿姨高興地說：「她可就好命了，嫁了一個體貼的丈夫，做飯、掃地、洗衣、帶孩子，全都由先生一手包辦，而且每天早上還端早餐到床上呢！」
【啟示】：同樣的狀況，從不同角度去看，就會產生不同的心態。 站在別人的立場想一想，你可以有更大的包容，也可以有更多的愛心。
5、另闢捷徑
一天，老和尚囑咐弟子去南山打一擔柴回來。弟子們匆匆行至山腳，只見洪水從山上奔瀉而下，只能無功而返。
唯獨一個小和尚從懷中掏出一個蘋果，遞給師傅說：「過不了河，打不了柴，見河邊有棵蘋果樹，我就順手摘了一個蘋果回來。」
【啟示】：世上總有走不完的路，也有過不了的河。過不了掉頭而回是一種智慧，但真正的智慧還需放飛思想的風箏，摘下一個「蘋果」。
6、自作自受
晉文公用膳的時候，發現烤肉上纏著一根頭髮絲，便立即召來御廚，責問道：「你想害死寡人？」
御廚惶恐地跪下低頭說道：「若真有此事，我便犯下三項死罪。第一，頭髮絲沒被我鋒利的刀切斷；第二，竹條串肉時竟沒看到；第三，在炭火上烤時髮絲竟然沒燒焦。但是我想，恐怕是有人從中動了手腳，故意栽贓！」
晉文公聽完御廚的話，已明白三分，仔細盤查，確實是一個太監栽贓陷害。於是大怒，立馬命人將那個太監拖出去斬了。
【啟示】：再精心設計的陰謀和騙局，也不可能做到嚴絲合縫，總有蛛絲馬跡可尋。心懷叵測的人，只會搬起石頭砸自己的腳。
The company is located in:
1, short-sighted
In ancient times, the court sent two envoys to exile to Korea, one is to make, an associate.
When they ended their visit and returned, the Koryo State presented many of their gifts to them so that they did not care about those things and they would have the Deputy Deputy responsible for the administration. This vice-minister is a selfish and selfless villain who places himself in the bilge of the seeping water and places himself on it.
On the way, there was a big storm, and to be on the safe side, the owner demanded that anything accompanying be thrown into the sea in order to reduce the weight of the ship. So everyone has to throw things into the sea, but also take care of what, or life critical. Just throwing in half, the wind and waves at sea gradually subsided, we also calm down and began to check their belongings.
The associate discovered that his own thing was gone, thrown into the sea altogether, and the gift that was being made was never thrown away because it was placed on the lowest level.
[Apocalypse]: narrow-minded, short-sighted people will always self-defeating. Heart-large people always think of others in advance, and then is their own, when your heart filled with others, others are thinking of you in the heart.
2, the most powerful language
Pope Pius XII never preached in preaching, his aides were very curious about his memory, and once he finally said the reason.
Very early, he looked at the lectures every time. After watching the script for a while in mass, suddenly a female believer stood up and publicly criticized it: "If a preacher can not remember what he is talking about, how can he make other people remember Do you live?
The believer"s words made him speechless and ashamed, and he resolved not to look at the scriptures any longer.
Later, on the night before his preaching, he kept the content of the speech in his mind; later, he would not have to write any more.
Apocalypse: It is only counterproductive to use empty language to ask for someone else. Your own actions and performance are the most powerful words.
3, cough parrot
Have a lovely home at home a cute parrot. One day, a visiting friend reminded the hostess, "Your parrot is not sick, always coughing and looks painful."
A lady, very nervous, careful attention really found the parrot cough, and quickly sent to the pet hospital. After the veterinary diagnosis, the result is that the parrot is healthy and does not have any problems.
So why does this parrot cough? In fact, it is not a real cough, but rather, learning the cough of the hostess who smokes fiercely.
Apocalypse: When contradictions or problems arise, we always look at others and blame others for their mistakes and mistakes. Perhaps the real reason comes from ourselves, but we never think we will not be wrong. Therefore, I have never been aware of their own problems, but not introspective.
4, empathy
Aunt Wang and Aunt Lee in the district chat.
Wang aunt asked: "your son okay?"
Aunt Lee sighed and replied: "Do not mention, he is really pitiful, marry a wife too lazy to death, do not cook, do not sweep the floor, do not wash clothes, without children, sleep all day, my son also end breakfast to her bed It! "
Aunt Wang asked again: "What about your daughter?"
Aunt Lee said happily. "She can be so lucky. Married a considerate husband, cook, sweeping, laundry, bring her children, all by Mr. And have breakfast on the bed every morning!
Apocalypse: The same situation, from a different point of view, will have a different attitude. Think of others standing position, you can have greater tolerance, but also can have more love.
5, another shortcut
One day, the old monk asked his disciples to go back to Nanshan to play a load of wood. Disciples hurried to the foot of the mountain, I saw the floods from the hills ran down, can only fail.
Only a young monk pulled out an apple from his arms and handed it to the master. He said: "I can not cross the river, I can not hit the wood, I see an apple tree by the river, and I just pick an apple back."
【Apocalypse】: There are always endless paths in the world, but also rivers that we can not live without. It is a kind of wisdom to turn back and return, but the real wisdom needs to fly the thought kite and take off an "apple".
6, make their own sufferings
Jin Wen public meals, found on the barbecue wrapped in a hair, they immediately called Royal kitchen, responsible for asking: "Do you want to kill the most?"
Royal kitchen knelt down and said fearfully: "If this happens, I committed three deaths. First, the hair was not my sharp knife cut off; second, when the bamboo skewers actually did not see; the third , When the charcoal grilled hair even did not scorch, but I think, I am afraid someone moved from the hands and feet, deliberately stolen!
Jin Wen Gong heard the words of the kitchen chef, has been aware of one-third, a careful inventory, is indeed an eunuch framed stolen. So furious, immediately ordered the eunuch to go out to cut.
】 【Apocalypse: Then carefully designed conspiracy and scams, it is impossible to be seamless, there are always clues to find. Heart-wrenched people, will only lift their own feet hit the rock.
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