成功人士和你的十個區別
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Successful people are the icing on the cake of any hot discussion. Success is inspiring and interesting to talk about.
大家都喜歡討論成功，成功人士更是所有熱門話題的必聊部分。
The truth is, any successful individual is flesh and blood just like you. They are not born miracles, but it"s the small differences that help them stick out from the rest.
實際上，所有的成功人士都和你我一樣是普通的血肉之軀。他們並非天生奇才，但有些小差別確實讓他們脫穎而出。
So, what are the key aspects that differentiate them from the crowd?
那麼是什麼讓他們區別於普通大眾呢？
1
Ordinary people
talk aboutother people
Successful people talk about ideas
普通人談論別人
成功人士談論想法
Gossiping and bagging others are popular among ordinary folks. They just can"t help but talk about people, often with a vein of jealousy. What successful people do is discuss various ideas that could improve their lives.
一般人都比較喜歡聊別人的八卦。出於嫉妒心理，他們無法控制地談論其他人。而成功人士則會談論能提高他們生活水平的主意和想法。
Plans, goals, aspirations and innovations — these are all the aspects of discussions between successful individuals.
成功人士之間討論的話題都是計劃、目標、抱負和創新。
2
Ordinary peopleset goals
Successful people set
detailed plans of actions
普通人設立目標
成功人士設立具體計劃
Your "Average Joe" will want to lose weight and give up smoking as a new year"s resolution. Though most likely, he won"t achieve either of these.
很多人會將減肥和戒煙設立為新年目標，但多數情況下他們根本實現不了這些計劃。
Successful people set their goals as well. More importantly, however, they create a detailed set of actions they need to perform in order to achieve their end goal.
成功人士也設立目標，但更重要的是他們會以此制定具體計劃。
Whereas ordinary people just set the goal, successful people determine the daily, weekly, monthly and yearly activities and habits which will lead to achieving their vision.
當普通人只是設立目標時，成功人士會設計好每天、每周、每月和每年的活動來完成目標。
3
Ordinary people complain about life
Successful people adapt to
what life throws at them
普通人抱怨生活
成功人士接納一切
You see people living better than you, with more chances and doors just waiting to be opened.Sometimes, fate can be unfair and brutal.
別人擁有很多機會，活得比你好。有時命運就是這樣不公和粗暴。
The fact is, everybody experiences difficulties. Both, people at the bottom as well as the ones at the top, struggle with something. You can"t control the obstacles life throws at you, but you can control the way you react to them.
實際上每個人都會經歷困境。底層人士和上層人士都有各自的糾結。你無法控制生活拋來的困難，但你能控制自己如何應對困難。
Whereas ordinary folks simply wish life was easier, successful individuals accept the way it is and find an alternative path.
普通人只是祈禱生活會變得容易，而成功人士則接受這一切並另闢蹊徑。
4
Ordinary people stick to social norms
successful people create
their own norms
普通人遵守社會準則
成功人士創立準則
Social norms were made to control the masses, not to help them. Normal people will be afraid to diverge from popular patterns. Often times, the only thing that stops them is the need for the approval of others. A successful person doesn"t seek that.
社會準則的建立是為了控制大眾而非幫助大眾。普通人害怕脫離常規。通常而言，他們止步不前的唯一原因是需要別人的認可。而成功人士不需要這些。
The fact is, if there would be a recipe for success, everyone could easily replicate it. In reality, however, creating and testing your own rules is required to walk an extraordinary path. It"s a path full of ups and downs, but more often than not, it"s the undiscovered route which leads to the superior results.
實際上，如果有成功定律，每個人都能複製成功。但現實告訴我們，創造力和檢驗自我準則才是通往卓越之路的必備條件。這條路起伏不定，但通常隱秘之路才能通往成功。
5
Ordinary people
dream ofa better future
Successful people
createa better future
普通人夢想未來
成功人士創造未來
We all want to live a better life: more happiness, more freedom, better health and more financial independence count to the most desired goals. To some degree, everyone tries to work on achieving them.
我們都想要生活更好：更多的幸福、更多的自由、更好的健康狀況以及更好的經濟條件。某種程度上，每個人都在努力達成這些願望。
However, the average person will focus on dreaming, while the successful one spares no effort to create that dreamy future. One step at a time: that person knows that acting, and not just dreaming, is what makes he fantasy a reality.
但是普通人只是想想而已，成功人士卻在不遺餘力去實現這些夢想。一步一個腳印實現夢想的人才能擁有燦爛的未來。
6
Ordinary people let
their thoughtsinfluence them
Successful people
influence their thoughts
普通人被想法影響
成功人士影響想法
Everyone has doubts and negative thoughts once in a while. It"s just the human nature and the way our brains function. Many people accept these thoughts as ultimate truths and let them dictate their lives.
每個人都會有懷疑和消極的想法。這是人性和大腦的反應。很多人將這些想法等同於事實，被這些想法控制了生活。
On the contrary, outstanding people are conscious of the impact their thoughts have, so they influence their thinking to make it work for, and not against them. You can just accept the presence of negative thoughts as a normal appearance, ignore it, and instead think about the more positive aspects.
與此相反，出色的人覺察到這些消極想法，進而利用這些想法為自己服務，而不是對抗自己。你只需要接受這些消極想法，忽略它們，然後想想積極的一面。
7
Ordinary people see
a half-empty glass
Successful people see
a half-full glass
普通人看到杯子空了一半
成功人士看到杯子滿了一半
Your attitude undoubtedly influences your behavior. Seeing only the negative side of each thing is definitely a bad habit, but then again, it"s most people"s approach to life.
你的態度絕對會影響你的行為。雖然只看事物的消極面肯定是壞習慣，但卻是多數人的生活態度。
Plenty of them complain that they lack the determining factor which would make their lives better. Simply put, they believe the glass is half-empty.
很多人抱怨自己無法過上更好的生活是因為缺乏必要條件。換言之，他們認為杯子空了一半。
When it comes to successful people, they always squeeze as much as possible from what they already have. In other words, they"ll work to find a joy in the half-full glass.
而成功人士永遠會從現有一切中儘可能尋找可能性。他們會找到杯子滿了一半的樂趣。
8
Ordinary people judge others
Successful people
only judge themselves
普通人評判別人
成功人士評判自己
Judging people is one of the most horrible habits people can have, yet many do that on a regular basis. As you can already guess, these are the average people. They waste their time judging others, instead of spending it by contributing value to the world.
評判別人是人們最可怖的習慣之一，但很多人經常這麼做。這就是普通人的做法。他們的時間都浪費在評判別人，而不是為社會做貢獻。
It is true that successful humans judge as well, yes, they really do! However, they judge themselves — their behavior, their actions, and their attitude. They use judging as a tool to draw conclusions about themselves.
當然成功人士也評判人，但他們評判的是自己——自己的行為和態度。他們把評判作為自我總結的工具。
9
Ordinary people buy things
Successful people buy value
普通人買東西
成功人士買價值
Another similarity between the two discussed groups is obviously spending money — they both do. Special offers, extra discounts, and bonuses are all designed to trick the typical person into buying things they don"t actually need.
普通人和成功人士的另一個相似之處是他們都購物。普通人會陷於特價打折的誘惑，購買自己不需要的東西。
Most of these things will add some value to their lives for a few moments, but that soon fades away, lost in the pile of other possessions. And in turn, so does the money.
這些沒用的東西會在短期內提高購買者的生活質量，但這些東西很快就會被扔到一邊，錢就這麼浪費了。
Successful folks would rather exchange their money for value. This doesn"t necessary have to be a physical thing. Commonly, it"s value in the form of experiences, new opportunities, long-term ROI, or adventures.
成功人士則會將金錢兌換成價值。這並不意味著他們一定要購買物品。通常而言，體驗、機遇、長期投資回報率和冒險都有價值。
10
Ordinary people cannot say no
Successful people often say no
普通人不能說「不」
成功人士經常說「不」
"No" is among the most powerful words you can use to accelerate your success. Nonetheless, lots of people underestimate the risk of not using it enough. They say "yes" to whatever situation is thrown at them. Consequently, they end up saying "no" to the things that matter the most.
讓你成功的最有效的辭彙之一就是「不」。然而很多人都低估了這個字的作用。
From a short-term perspective, saying "no" can be scary. But then again, considering the long-term view, it"s better to say "no" now, rather than regret the subsequent consequences of saying "yes".
從短期來看，說「不」很可怕。但長遠考慮，現在拒絕比後悔當初同意要好得多。
You have to say "no" to bad eating habits, smoking, and sedentary lifestyle so you can say "yes" to being more healthy.
你必須向不良飲食習慣、吸煙和久坐不動說「不」，這樣才能迎接更健康的自己。
The successful individual takes the advantage of saying "no" on a daily basis, while the ordinary one underestimates the power of this seemingly simple two letter word.
成功人士經常說「不」，而普通人低估了這個詞的作用。
Do you know how to become a successful person now?
Source: Lifehack
Editors: Zhang Xi, Li Lanyan (intern)
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