Learn to be grateful 學會感恩
As an old saying goes 「Gratitude is the inward feeling of kindness received. Thankfulness is the natural impulse to express that feeling」. Learning to be grateful is the stepping stone to a greater experience. No matter how great difficulties you are facing at present, just give thanks for everything that happens to you, cause you never know that some day you will get something good from your bad current situation.
俗話說：「感恩是內心的善良。」。感恩是表達這種感覺的自然衝動。學會感恩是獲得更大經驗的墊腳石。不管你現在面臨多大的困難，感謝發生在你身上的每件事，因為你永遠不知道總有一天你會從糟糕的現狀中得到一些好的東西。
I got extremely frustrated recently, for all the circumstances around me are in a crazy mess. People around me never stop complaining, their life, work, and bad relationship with their colleagues, just like fierce flood pouring towards me one after another. Actually, I am not a person who likes complaining, because it really makes no sense. Speaking ill of everything behind is just an unwise choice to express your hater. When you smile, the world will smile to you. Attitude determines the quality of your life, so why not choose a different one to make your life pleasant and joyful.
最近我非常沮喪，因為我周圍的一切都是一團糟。我周圍的人從來沒有停止抱怨關於他們的生活，工作，以及他們的同事關係處理都不好，一切就像潮水般一個接一個地湧向我。事實上，我不是一個喜歡抱怨的人，因為那是沒有意義的。背後說人閑話並不是一個明智的選擇來表達你的不難與憤怒。當你微笑時，世界也會對你微笑。態度決定你的生活質量，為什麼不選擇一個積極的態度讓你的生活更加愉快呢？
Life is surely unfair and complicated, but we can simplify it. Never in my life did I think of teaching as my first career. What surprises me most is that I can stick to it for more than two years. I am unwilling to recall what I have suffered during this period. From a green hand to a comparatively experienced one in career, I fulfilled myself gradually. I often tell myself what I should do or shouldn』t do for the sake of myself. And people around me told me how I should make a good performance. They may also told me some people this and that, day by day I feel pessimistic about the surroundings. I often ask myself what measures I should take to handle with the hardship in the long march of my life. I start to feel unsatisfied with the life I owned currently and constantly complain about the messy environment. I even can』t persuade myself of believing life is wonderful if you have a good attitude. I was totally destroyed by the reality, or more accurately by a voice living inside me. Therefore, complaints ascend incredibly. But if I just ignore those who I don』t care, what the consequence will be like. It is truly an expecting one.
生活當然是不公平和複雜的，但我們可以簡化它。我一生中從未想過教書是我的第一職業。最讓我吃驚的是我竟然能堅持兩年多。我不願回憶起這段時期我所遭受的痛苦。從一個新手到一個比較有經驗的人，我逐步實現了自己。我經常告訴自己應該做什麼或不應該做什麼。我周圍的人也告訴我應該有一個好的表現。他們也經常會在我面前各種抱怨，逐漸地，我對周圍環境感到悲觀。我經常問自己，在漫長的人生旅途中，我應該採取什麼措施來應付艱難困苦。我開始對現在的生活感到不滿意，不斷抱怨凌亂的環境。我甚至不能說服自己相信生活是美好的。我完全被現實摧毀了，或者更確切地說是被我心底的那個反對的聲音打敗了。我的抱怨變得越來越多，難以抑制。但是，我的內心一直在思考如果忽視那些我不在乎的人，結果會是什麼樣子，那是一個令人期待的結果。
After night』s deep consideration, I changed my attitude on my way to work. No one has responsibility for your life, whatever you do has nothing to do with others. Don』t treat yourself as a pearl when you are still sand. In fact, nobody cares you as much as you think you deserve. Even people hurt you or do something bad on you, what you can and should do is learning to be grateful. If you are concentrated on something good in every situation, you will find your life suddenly be filled with happiness and sunshine, cause gratitude is a feeling that nurtures your soul. What』s more, you will be purified in your deepest heart.
經過一夜的深思，我在上班的路上改變了態度。沒有人對你的生活負責，無論你做什麼都與別人無關。當你還是沙子的時候不要把自己當作珍珠。事實上，沒有人能像你認為你應得的那樣在乎你。即使有人傷害你，你能做的也應該是學會感恩。如果你專註於在任何情況下找到好的東西，你會發現你的生活突然充滿了幸福和陽光，感激是一種滋養你靈魂的感覺。更重要的是，你將被凈化在你的內心深處。
I shall express my deepest gratitude to everything around me, no matter good or ill. Thanks for all the people met in my life, no matter friends or so called enemies. For all the things you have done for me, I become what I am now even though I am not perfect. From now on, being grateful and merciful is the motto of my life. Life doesn』t need complaints; it is the source of bad. To get rid of it, we have to be optimistic and positive towards everything that happens in our life.
我要對我周圍的一切，無論是好或是壞，致以最深的感謝。感謝所有在我生命中遇到的人，不管是朋友還是敵人。因為你為我所做的一切，我也變成了現在這個雖然不完美但是卻不一樣的我。從現在開始，心懷感激和仁慈將成為我生命的座右銘。生活不需要抱怨，它是不幸的根源。為了擺脫它，我們必須對生活中發生的一切保持樂觀和積極的態度。
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