五年的守候，擦肩而過的愛

感謝傷害我們的人吧。也許最初的時候我們都做不到，但是總有一天我們會明白，他（她）對我們雖然殘忍，但是也給我們帶來了成長和成熟的機會。

一段感情的失敗，打擊的不僅是我們對一個人的愛，很大程度上還損害了我們的自信心，讓我們感覺自己做人的失敗，毀滅了一個人賴以支持的自信和尊嚴，這也許就是我們在面對婚姻的結束的時候憤恨和難過的主要原因吧？

有時候，某些人會把離婚當作一種測量對方對自己在意程度的儀器，時不時的拿出來檢驗一番，看對方萬分恐懼苦苦挽救會有一種安全感，其實，這是一個非常危險的遊戲，很多時候，對方會覺得你的表達就是你心裡的真實想法。

世界上沒有單純的受害者，我們若永遠為自己憤憤不平，那麼我們可能永遠也看不到自己在這段婚姻中的失誤和偏差。等我們平心靜氣的時候，我們會看到，也許對錯並沒有那麼重要，重要的是，一場災難，折射出了我們自己人生的誤區和不足。

Thank you for hurting us. Maybe at the beginning we couldn』t do it, but one day we would understand that although he (she) was cruel to us, it also gave us the opportunity to grow and mature.

The failure of an emotional relationship is not only a blow to our love for one person, but it also undermines our self-confidence to a large extent. It makes us feel like we have failed in our lives and destroyed the self-confidence and dignity of a person. This may be Is this the main reason for our resentment and sadness in the face of the end of the marriage?

Sometimes, some people will regard divorce as an instrument to measure the degree to which the other party cares about themselves. From time to time, it will come out and test it. It will be a sense of security to see each other fearfully and hard to save. In fact, this is a very dangerous situation. In many games, the other person will feel that your expression is the true idea in your heart.

There are no simple victims in the world. If we are always angry for ourselves, then we may never see our mistakes and deviations in this marriage. When we calm down, we will see that perhaps right and wrong are not so important. What is important is that a disaster reflects the misunderstandings and shortcomings of our own lives.

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