匿名情書·致小可愛們
親愛的寶云：
你好！
最近過得還好嗎？爸爸、媽媽的身體都還好嗎？嫂子家的寶寶如她所願是個女娃娃嗎？愛上給你無數回憶的瀋陽那座城市了嗎？那部關於和那個皂衣少年愛情故事的小說完成了嗎？加了快一瓶醋的米線還能讓你快樂嗎？依然還有畢業後第一件大事兒是買房的目標嗎？給你買的那件慶祝畢業的紅裙子合身嗎？真的有好多好多事情想要和你聊，竟無從說起了。
還記得教基礎課拿掃帚當教鞭的老大爺嗎？對，就是那個穿涼鞋露著白棉襪的學校返聘的老教授，他給我的平時成績打了滿分，原來我的努力不光你一個人知道；那個同期和我進入學生會瓜子臉白白凈凈的姑娘，她現在有點發福了，她說，總感覺我對她比她對我好，真是奇怪，聽女孩子說這種話，有點肉麻，感恩我的朋友們都是那般單純善良；還有那個我總跟她開玩笑說，離職以後，再也沒有學姐幫你們幹活兒的妹子，滿眶盈眶地說我永遠是她老大，小孩子真是天真，永遠能夠陪伴你的只有自己啊，要照顧好她！
上個假期回家，激動得都快寫不出合適的文字來形容當時的心情了，終於搬進了動遷的房子了，可以在自己家過年了。幾經周折平安到家，「我的房間」堆滿了隔壁的傢具，真的沒辦法表彰咱家老帥哥的熱心，畢竟全家人都是這樣的「好心腸」。
可能就是突然某一天，好像不知道自己想要的是什麼。找到五年前寫給自己的信，竟不敢打開，大概不希望自己愧疚吧。有人說大學可以給我們能夠築成高牆的課本、不同民族不同習俗甚至不同價值觀的同學或者從校服到婚紗的少年，卻沒教我們如何生活。幼稚得買了很多書，從中去尋找答案。也問媽媽，她說我傻，生活還用教嗎，不教不也能好好過日子。
遙想當年咱們這麼叛逆，長大以後，便成了媽媽的樣子。也是啊，如果生活把未來都告訴我就失去了神秘，如果我通曉了未來，就會守株待兔去痴人說夢了。真羨慕你執著而無懼未來，但無能為力的事兒不要難為自己，要允許不完美，允許犯錯。不要急功近利，大器晚成也是極好的嘛，幸福如果來得晚，要學會耐心等待啊。
上周去爬山，好在平時也有鍛煉身體，沒有那麼吃力。你還有堅持鍛煉嗎？還把減肥當成一輩子的事業嗎？你知道的，比起行萬里路，我還是更適合萬卷書。怕高是因為擔心墜落，但我想做個看過世界的女人，你說的，克服恐懼才能夠脫胎換骨。所以，希望我們年少時領悟到的東西都經得起時間的打磨，磨礪不會讓我們忘記夢想。
最近看了一本書《終於學會愛自己》，快樂源於對自我的接納，而接納要從探索人格開始，大概需要步驟如下：
一、在白紙上寫下自己所知身上的特質；
二、邀請三到五位親近且熟識的親人或朋友，回饋給你，比如性格、特質，會如何形容你？
三、比較特質群，找出不想承認的、可以擺脫或是解決的特質。
邀請你來形容一下我。期盼我所知的那個我和你形容的我想似。
你一定在想，咱倆怎麼一樣一樣的呢！小傻瓜，我就是你啊！最近過得挺好的，爸媽身體康健，過了好多年退休生活；嫂子家是二侄女；瀋陽愛或不愛，她一直都在；跟皂衣少年說不怪他後，文稿就再也沒更；米線依然能讓我幸福；小姑娘還想買房子；那條裙子紅得真好看……
2018年的寶雲
戌狗年二月二十九
DearElla:
What is going on?Are your parentsfine? Is the baby of sister-in-lawgirl aslooking forward to?Have you ever fall in love with Shenyang, which has given you countless memories?Hasthe novel aboutromanticstory with thebrilliantboy completed? Can the rice noodleswitha quick bottle of vinegar make you happy? Isthemajor goalowning a maisonetteaftergraduation?Doesthe red dressI bought tocelebrate graduationsuit you? There are so many things that I want toaskyou.
RememberDr.Zhangteaching basic courses?The old professor,wearing white cotton stockingsin sandals,givesme a full mark on my normal grades.Only he sees my efforts except you.Catherine,whoentersthe student unionsame time,is a littlefat.Shesays, "You are too generous to repay." It"shoneyto hearthat.My friends are allcute.The Subordinates,whomIalwaysjoke with thereisno more sister to help you with your workafter leavingoffice,tell me i am her boss past and future. Haveherselves, take care of her!
Last holiday home,I am tooexcited towrite the appropriate words to describe the mood at the time.Safety tonewhouse, "my room" is filled with the furnitureof neighbor.Ireally can not commend the enthusiasm of our old handsomefather, after all, the whole family is such a "good heart."
It may be a sudden day that it doesn"t seem to know what itwants. Finding a letter written five years ago, I dare not open it toagainstfeelingguilty. Some people say that universities can give usmoutains of professionalbooks, schoolmates of different customs and even different values, or young men from uniforms to wedding dresses, but not how to live. I buymany bookstosearch forsolutionsnaively. Also askingmother, she saysI wasa child, andteachinglives notwell.Life is life,a beautiful baby,a delicious meal,a cup of hot milk and so on.
Back when we grow up, so rebelliously, became the way mom. Also, if life tells me the future, it will lose its mystery. If I know the future, I will wait for a fool togive me anything. Isimplyadoreyouthepersistence andcourageousof the future, but you can"t be hard to do for yourself. We must allow for imperfections andembracemistakes.Thehard-earnedsuccessisalsoan excellent thing.If happiness comes late, you just have to wait.
Last week, I went mountain climbing.It could not beat me.Do you stillexercise? Do youstillthink of losing weight as a lifelong career? As you know, I am more suitable forreadingbooks thansightseeing all over the world. Fear of heights is due to the fear of falling, but I want to be a woman who has seen the world,asyou say, overcomingfear can be reborn. Therefore, when we are young, we will be able to stand up to the grinding of time, so that we will not forget our dreams.
RecentlyIread a book, "FinallyLearnToLoveYourself". Happiness comes from self-acceptancestartedwith exploring personality.There are three steps to delineate an individual:
First, write down your own characteristics onthewhite paper.
Second, invite three or five close and familiar relatives or friends to give you feedback, such as character,trait,andhowtodescribe you.
Last, compare the idiosyncratic group to find out the trait that we don"t want to admit, get rid of or solve.
I would like to invite you . I hopethatwhatyou think of meis what Iknow.You must be wondering how the two of us are the similar. Littlegirl, I am you! Recently,I possessa good time;My parents are healthyafter many years of retirement life; the nieceis a cherub; Shenyangis still here forever;After sayingI knew nothing, the manuscript is no more; the ricenoodlesstill make meforgive not perfect; the littlefoolalso wants to buy a house; the dress isso dazzling...
Yours lovely
Young Ella
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