可以給不信佛的家人做肉菜吃嗎?
可以給不信佛的家人做肉菜吃嗎?
Can I make meat dishes for my family members who don』t believe in Buddhism?
問:作為家庭主婦的修行人,可以給不信佛的家人做肉菜吃嗎?
上師答:可以做。如果你不做的話,家人會起煩惱。自己盡量吃純素食,實在不行就吃裡面的素菜。做菜時盡量別殺生。為家人做肉食時也要好好發心。你處在這樣的環境中,就是一種惡緣。你要懺悔這些,然後給這些眾生髮願:願自己將來能度化它們,希望它們得以解脫。可以念咒、念佛號迴向給它們。我們也可以幫這些吃肉的人消業,替他們給那些眾生髮願。這樣你給他們做肉食,和他們一起吃飯的過程,也是在和眾生結善緣,也是修行。
其實佛法里有很多方便,尤其是在密宗里。小乘和大乘不一樣,大乘比小乘方便法門多;密宗和顯宗不一樣,密宗比顯宗方便法門多。八萬四千法門當中有很多很多方便,這些都是無窮無盡的,主要是看你自己會不會利用這些。
Question: As a role of housewife and Buddhism practitioner, can I make meat dishes for my family members who don』t believe in Buddhism?
Guru answers: You can do that. If you don』t make, your family will have annoyance. You try to eat pure vegetarian food, or it is difficult then eating the vegetarian ones in the dishes. Try not to kill when cooking. You should make good aspiration When making meat dishes for your family. You are in such an environment, which is a kind of bad karma. You should repent of these and make vows for these sentient beings: wishing I can salvage and enlighten them in the future, wishing them get liberation. You can chant sutras and recite the Buddha names and dedicate merits to them. We can also help these people who eat meat to eliminate their bad karma by taking them to make vows for the beings. In this way, you making them meat dishes, eating with them, is also to make good connections with beings, and it is practice as well. Actually, there are many expedient ways in Buddhism especially in Mantrayana. Hinayana is different from Mahayana, Mahayana has more expedient ways than Hinayana. Mantrayana is different from Sutrayana, Mantrayana has more expedient ways than Sutrayana. There are lots of conveniences among 84000 types of Buddhism practices, which are endless. It depends on whether you can use these.
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