What is the point of getting angered？
[A sannyasin who works in the mala shop asked about a problem with his coordinator, Asheesh: I just don"t like to be dominated, and I started screaming back at him just because I felt humiliated and defensive.]
[一名在商店工作的門徒因為和自己上司Asheesh之間的問題，而問奧修：我不想被控制，我開始嚷回去，因為我覺得被羞辱了，我想捍衛自己。]
OSHO 奧修:
So the problem is inside you. When a person is not humble he feels humiliated. When a person is humble there is no humiliation. It is the ego that feels humiliation.
所以問題在你心裡。當一個人並不謙遜時，他就會感到受辱。如果你是謙遜的，就不會有羞辱。是自我感到受辱。
[The sannyasin answers: But it felt that it wasn"t true, and that he was just screaming at me.]
[那個門徒說：但我覺得並非如此，是他朝我嚷嚷。]
Sometimes it is possible that the other may be just finding an excuse to throw his anger, but that"s no reason for you to get disturbed. If Asheesh gets angry or screams at you, that is his problem. And you see clearly that there is nothing to scream about. It is ridiculous, so you can enjoy it.
有時候，有可能對方只是在找借口發泄憤怒，但那不應該是你心煩的理由。如果Asheesh生氣了，或者朝你嚷嚷，那是他的問題。你一清二楚，沒什麼好嚷嚷的。這很荒唐，所以你可以自得其樂。
What is the point of getting angered? There are only two possibilities: either he is right, then you feel humiliated; or he is wrong -- then he is being ridiculous, so the whole situation is humorous and one can enjoy it.
被惹怒有什麼意義？只有兩種可能性：要麼他是對的，於是你感到受辱；要麼他錯了，那他很荒唐，所以整件事很搞笑，你可以自得其樂。
If you feel humiliated and he is right, there is no need to get angry. Rather, start looking for the ego and drop that ego, otherwise again and again you will feel humiliated. The ego is very touchy. So drop it.
如果你感到受辱，而他是對的，就沒必要生氣。相反，開始尋找自我，把自我放下，否則你會不停的受辱。自我很容易動怒。所以放下它。
Being here with me if you cannot drop it, where will you be able to drop it? So drop it and tell Asheesh and everybody that whenever you have a chance to humiliate me, humiliate me, so that I can drop it sooner.
如果跟我在一起時你都不能放下自我，你還能在哪裡放下它？所以放下它，告訴Asheesh和所有人，你一有機會羞辱我，就羞辱我，這樣我能早點放下。
If you feel that they are right, accept whatsoever they are saying and be humble. If you are humble you can never be humiliated; that is the point. A humble person is beyond it. You cannot humiliate him. He is already standing in the last row; you cannot throw him backwards.
如果你覺得他們是對的，就接納他們所說的一切，保持謙遜。如果你謙遜，你永遠都不會受辱，那是重點。一個謙遜之人超越了它。你無法羞辱他。他已經站在最後一排了，你沒法再往後趕他。
He is already defeated; you cannot defeat him. He says, "I am the last," so where can you throw him out? He is already the last. He is not trying to become the first, so nobody can obstruct him.
他已經敗了，你無法擊敗他。他說，「我是最後一名」，所以你能拿他怎麼辦？他已經是最後一名了。他不試圖當第一，所以沒人能阻礙他。
That is the whole taoist attitude towards life. Be humble, then nobody can humiliate you. Be egoless, then nobody can hurt you. There is no point in being defensive, because defences won"t help. You go on carrying the wound and just go on hiding it, but again and again something will hurt it because the wound is there and anything can hurt it. The ego is like a wound.
那就是道家對待生命的態度。保持謙遜，這樣就沒人能羞辱你。保持無我，這樣就沒人能傷害你。捍衛自己沒有意義，因為捍衛不管用。你仍然帶著創傷，你不停的隱藏它，然而總會有東西傷到它，因為有創傷在，任何東西都能傷到它。自我猶如創傷。
So when you see that somebody is right, wait, don"t get angry, don"t immediately get into a rage. Wait, close your eyes, meditate over it.
所以當你知道有人是對的，就等一等，別生氣，不要馬上報復。等一等，閉上眼睛，靜心觀照它。
If Asheesh is right, tell him, "You are right and I was wrong," and correct whatsoever he is talking about. Or if he is absolutely wrong and is throwing something at you which has nothing to do with you, then it is his problem. Feel sorry for him; he is being ridiculous. If you can remain silent and laughing, he will have to understand it. He will take note of it -- that he has been a fool.
如果Asheesh對了，就告訴他，「你是對的，我錯了，」他所說的都是對的。或者，如果他完全錯了，他在把跟你無關的東西發泄到你身上，那就是他的問題了。同情他，他很荒唐。如果你能保持寧靜和歡笑，他就必須明白這件事。他會明白自己是個笨蛋。
We are here to help each other, and all these situations are good. These situations are human situations. This ashram is not to be a monastery where all situations have to be left outside the door. No. This ashram has to be a miniature world where every situation that exists in the world has to exist here also. Only then can I prepare you for the world, otherwise I will be destroying you. So anger, love, hate, fight, everything has to happen in this ashram.
在這裡我們要互助，每個情形都是好的。那些情形是人性化的情形。這個社區不是寺院，所有的情形都被拒之門外。這個社區是塵世的縮影，世上有的各種情形這裡也都有。只有這樣我才能讓你們準備好進入塵世，否則我是在摧毀你。所以憤怒、愛、恨、爭鬥，一切都得在社區上演。
This ashram is not against the world. It is a miniature world, a small world, a community where we are preparing everybody to be able to cope with the world, to be able to live in the world and live positively and affirmatively... to live and enjoy. Whatsoever the situation, our whole effort is to make you capable of passing through that situation unaffected, uncorrupted by it; in fact benefited, enriched by it.
這個社區並不反對塵世。它是塵世的縮影，在這個一個小塵世里，在這個社區里，我們把所有人準備好，好讓他們能應對塵世，活在塵世里，積極的、肯定的活著，生活其中，享受其中。無論情形如何，我們的所有努力，都在於讓你能夠無動於衷、兩袖清風的經歷那個情形，事實上被其豐富，因其受益。
There are monasteries in the world which are against the world. They create an alternate world; no fight, no anger, everybody is polite and everybody is nice, everybody is goody-goody. But everything is false, everybody is pretending, forcing. No, I am not for that.
世上有些寺院是反對塵世的。他們創造了一個世界取而代之，沒有衝突，沒有憤怒，每個人都很禮貌，每個人都很友好，每個人都很偽善。但一切都是假的，每個人都在裝模作樣、強迫。不，我不贊同他們。
I want real people here. And if grace comes, it has to come through being real, not through being hypocrites, not by pretending.
我想要真實的人活在這裡。如果優雅出現了，它必須是來自保持真實，而不是來自偽善，來自裝模作樣。
So thank Asheesh. He is good, he is giving you great chances. So when you go back, tell him. "Continue, Asheesh," mm?
所以感謝Asheesh。他很好，他給了你極大的機會。所以你回去後告訴他，「Asheesh，繼續。」嗯？
[The sannyasin answers: He can be very heavy.]
[那個門徒回答：他會很難搞。]
He can be, but you have to enjoy it. He"s a great taskmaster! You have to enjoy it. Drop your ego. When it is a question of ego, always drop it. And if he is wrong, then laugh. Then give him an opportunity to grow.
他能，但你得享受其中。他很擅長處理各種任務！你必須享受其中。放下你的自我。如果問題來自自我，始終要放下它。如果他錯了，就笑一笑，然後給他一個成長的機會。
譯自：OSHO A Rose is a Rose is a Rose
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