小組裡有些師兄經常不來參加共修，怎麼辦？

問：小組裡有些師兄經常不來參加共修，跑去忙其他的事。這種情況應該怎麼辦呢？

答：能勸就勸勸，勸不了也不要太執著，自己學好了就行了，自己先管好自己，這是最重要的。若是你跟他有這個機緣，你也有這個能力勸他，你也不能堅持不做，應該糾正他，勸阻他，這也是佛弟子應該做的。但是在機緣不成熟的時候，你還沒有這個能力的時候，還是不要勉強去勸。這樣的話，也許更會使對方煩惱，也許造的業就更多了。我們還是盡量去寬容，盡量去發慈悲心吧！

Question: Some of members in the group often don"t participate in the group practice but do other things. What should we do about this situation?

Guru answers: You can persuade them if possible. Don"t be too persistent if you can"t persuade. Just learn well by yourself and put your house in order first, this is the most important. If you have the opportunity with him and you also have the ability to persuade him, you can not insist on doing nothing, instead you should correct him, dissuade him, this is what the Buddhists should do. But when the cause and condition is not ripe, and you don』t have this ability, do not force to persuade. Otherwise, it may even annoy the other side and create more bad karmas. Let"s try to be tolerant and arouse our compassion！

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