生活感悟：人生是一場修行，就像蒲公英，自由的表象是身不由己
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I remember that day when I was lying at the corner of the table and you looked at me and laughed. Outside the window is a clean summer, inside is the most beautiful season of youth. Miss does not necessarily need to meet, like does not necessarily need to be together, you have to believe that every distance has its existence significance. Your life will have happy memories, even if your road is covered with snow, but you can still remember once happy things, you can still be brave.
二、人生是一場修行，就像蒲公英，自由的表象是身不由己，不是不在乎，是你越在乎會越痛苦，再也改變不了曾經的結果，何必一遍遍難過的念念不忘。別想著掌控所有事，儘力後的隨緣才是最自在的。
Life is a practice, just like dandelion, the appearance of freedom is involuntary, not indifferent. The more you care, the more painful you will be, the more you will never change the results. Why not remember the sad thoughts again and again? Don"t try to control everything. The best way to follow is to be comfortable.
三、到你心上的那條路，便是此生余年的旅程。那些求而不得的是愛而不得的人，是無論過去多久都沒辦法釋懷的。很多時候不提不代表遺忘，是有心無力，是無能為力，只能嘆口氣「算了」。
The road to your heart is the journey of the rest of your life. Those who do not get what they want are those who do not get what they love. No matter how long they have been in the past, they can not be relieved. Many times, not mentioning does not mean forgetting, is intentional powerlessness, is powerless, can only sigh "forget".
四、生活中真正的勇士向來默默無聞，喧嘩不止的永遠是自視高貴的一群。「可我從來沒見過你發愁鬱悶啊？」我懷疑地說。小王笑了，「大概因為我有個懂我的好老婆吧，每次遇到困難， 她都在我身邊陪我一起度過。
The real warriors in life have always been unknown, and the noisy ones are always those who regard themselves as noble. "But I"ve never seen you depressed?" I said doubtfully. Xiao Wang laughed. "Maybe because I have a good wife who understands me. Every time I encounter difficulties, she stays with me.
五、在繁雜的人世中，不能夠擁有的其實有太多，太多。以至於，人心貪婪，無法滿足所謂的一己私慾。就好像，我奢求一點點安慰，一點點在心靈上的寄託。無論親情，友情，還是愛情。只是，現在才明白，一切都過太早，屬於自己的，慢慢等待，就足矣。
In a complicated world, there are actually too many, too many things that we can"t have. Thus, people are greedy and can not satisfy their so-called selfish desires. It"s like I"m craving a little comfort, a little bit of spiritual sustenance. Whether it is family, friendship, or love. It is only now clear that everything is too early, belong to their own, wait slowly, is enough.
六、最終讓你難以忘懷的，並不是某個誰，而是當初為之傾心，不顧一切的自己。人生可能會在一瞬間改變，所以每一個讓你人生步入正軌、穩步向前的人，都值得感激，無論他們扮演的角色多麼卑微。
Ultimately, what you can"t forget is not someone, but yourself who was devoted to it and desperate. Life may change in an instant, so everyone who puts your life on track and steadily moves forward deserves gratitude, no matter how humble their role is.
七、冬去，春天已經不遠了，閉上眼睛，彷彿嗅到花香。於是，努力讓自己堅持下去，以好的心態積極面對複雜的事情。本不輕易說再見，卻在某一天同太多人說了再見，此時的我，見風是風，見雨是雨，見你卻再也不是你了，有的人相逢一場，卻惦念了一生。
Winter is gone and spring is not far away. Close your eyes as if you could smell flowers. So, try hard to persevere and face the complicated things positively with a good attitude. This is not easy to say goodbye, but one day with too many people said goodbye, at this time I, see the wind is the wind, see the rain is the rain, see you but no longer you, some people meet, but miss a lifetime.
八、忍耐久了，就發一次脾氣； 壓抑多了，就釋放一回。 看別人的眼色， 不如做自己的本色； 小心翼翼的撐著， 不如大大咧咧的活著。人就這一輩子，別太對不起自己！人改變因為兩個原因：要麼，他們已經學會了太多，要麼，他們已經被傷害得太深。如果不幸福，不快樂，那就放手吧；如果捨不得，放不下，那就痛苦吧。
If you are patient, you lose your temper once; if you are more depressed, you release it once. It"s better to look at others"eyes than to be your own; it"s better to live carefully. People in this life, do not be too sorry for themselves! People change for two reasons: Either they have learned too much, or they have been hurt too much. If you are not happy and unhappy, let go; if you are reluctant and unable to let go, it will be painful.
九、 若只是初見，只求不相識，就不會有結局，心裡的刀絞橫在左心房的跳動，窒息的要命!請讓我逃過這一劫數，恢復沒有波瀾的起伏，就讓你在接受我這次一點點的任性，承受不起的太多。
If it"s just a first sight, just want not to know, there will be no end. The knife in my heart beats across the left atrium, suffocating the life! Please let me escape this catastrophe, restore the undulation without waves, let you accept my little capriciousness, can not afford too much.
十、所謂成熟就是，你要習慣任何人的忽冷忽熱，也要看淡任何人的漸行漸遠。世界上，唯獨騙不了的，是自己的心，它總在你最沒提防時，暴露你的歡喜憂愁。好像突然就不喜歡熱鬧了，好像突然很多事情就看開了，好像突然失去了生活的目標，只是感覺迷茫，是生活太無奈，還是我們變得順其自然了。
The so-called maturity is that you have to get used to everyone"s cold and hot, but also look at the fading away of anyone. In the world, the only thing that can not be deceived is your own heart, which always exposes your joys and sorrows when you least guard against it. It seems that suddenly I don"t like the liveliness, as if suddenly a lot of things have been opened up, as if I suddenly lost the goal of life, but I feel confused, is life too helpless, or we have become natural.
十一、一個殘酷的事實：維持良好人際關係的關鍵，並不在於你對他人的友善程度，而是在於你的實力強弱。人們普遍會對強者更寬容，過度的友善反而會被人當作廉價的示好。
A cruel fact: the key to good interpersonal relationships is not how friendly you are to others, but how strong you are. People tend to be more tolerant of the strong, and excessive friendliness can be seen as a cheap sign.
十二、世間最殘酷的事，一是時間無岸，一是流年似水。時間和流年，其實是一個概念，只是一個在身體之外，一個在身體之內。對它們最慘烈的計量方法，不是額頭皺紋的深淺，而是手心能握住的多少。
The cruelest thing in the world is that time has no shore and time has flowed like water. Time and time, in fact, is a concept, only one outside the body, one inside the body. The most tragic way to measure them is not the depth of wrinkles on the forehead, but how much the palm can hold.
十三、過一種高尚而誠實的生活。當你年老時回想起過去，你就能再一次享受人生。我們每個人都需要向生活低頭，因為殘酷的現實，還有不能接受的人或物都是生活給予的，過去的，就不要貪戀了，莫要回頭了，就算好了傷疤忘了疼，可那條疤終究還是在呢，一心向前，努力將自己變優秀，相信自己想要的一直在路上。
Live a noble and honest life. When you look back on the past in your old age, you can enjoy life again. We all need to bow to life, because the cruel reality, as well as unacceptable people or things are given by life, in the past, don"t be greedy, don"t go back, even if the scar forgot the pain, but that scar is still in the end, go forward, strive to become excellent, believe that they want to have been on the road.
十四、我覺得人的脆弱和堅強都超乎自己的想像。 有時，我可能脆弱得一句話就淚流滿面；有時，也發現自己咬著牙走了很長的路。當現實把你所有的自負都砸碎成粉末之後。所有讓你逆耳的忠言都會變得順耳。
I think people"s fragility and strength are beyond their imagination. Sometimes, I may be so fragile that I burst into tears at a word; sometimes, I find myself biting my teeth and walking a long way. When reality smashes all your egos into powder. Every piece of advice that turns your ears upside down will go down well.
十五、如果那天…沒有見到你 我想我不會那麼傷心 那麼難過 不會淚流滿面 但是如果沒有遇見你我就不會了解如此高興 如此幸福 如此溫柔 如此可愛 如此溫暖的感覺 現在還好嗎？ 我現在還和天空戀愛著
If that day... If I hadn"t met you, I thought I would not be so sad, so sad, or tearful. But if I hadn"t met you, I would not have known how happy, so happy, so tender, so lovely and so warm I felt. Is it okay now? I"m still in love with the sky.
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