情商的本質……▌有些人缺乏是非感和道德觀是因為……

最新 06-05

有些人無法辨別是非，是因為他們缺乏同理心，即換位思考的能力。

We don t really need religion to have morals.

其實，我們不一定需要宗教才有道德觀念。

Some people can t tell right from wrong because they lackempathy.

有些人無法辨別是非，是因為他們缺乏同理心。

Being empathetic means being able to think like the other one.

有同理心意味著能夠真正地換位思考。

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C2the ability to share someone else s feelings or experiences by imagining what it would be like to be in that person s situation

同情；同感，共鳴

練習換位思考最好的辦法是努力想像如果自己是對方，會是什麼樣子。我如果是TA,我會是什麼感覺，我會怎麼想或怎麼做。

The best way to exercise empathy , is try to imagine what it would be like if I were the other person.How would I feel, what would I think or do if I were him/her.

一個有同理心的人不會訴諸暴力，因為他會他人的傷痛感同身受。

An empathetic man wouldn t go violent because he could feel the pain the others would have.

一個有同理心的人不願做任何不友善的事，或者說不友善的話，因為他知道自己也不喜歡被不友善地對待。

A person with empathy would not like to say or do anything unkind, because he knows he wouldn t like to be treated unkindly.

正如中國老話所說的：」己所不欲，勿施於人。「

Just as the old Chinese saying," Don t treat others the way you wouldn t like to be treated."

同理心是一個人最重要的品質，也是所謂情商的真正核心。

Empathy is the most important quality in a person. It is the real core of EQ.

提升對於他人的同理心，不僅可以讓你更好地理解他人，也讓你因為有了更好的視界而把每件事都做得更好，從而就更有可能成功。

To better your ability to empathize with others,will not only help you understand others more, you will be able to do everything better based on a better perspective, thus you will be more likely to be successful.

原因是有了更強烈的同理心的你，不僅是更有善意的人，而且更加懂得他人的需求，更不容易和客戶或者同事起衝突，你也更加明白應該如何激勵和鼓舞周圍的人。

The reason is that you are not only a kinder person with deeper empathy, you can also understand other people s needs better, you are less likely to have conflicts with colleagues and customers, you know how to better motivate, inspire and encourage people around you.

你的全部世界就是一系列的關係，包括你和他人的關係，你和物質的關係，以及你和自然的關係，等等。對萬物有了更好的理解和認知，你自然會學會更加積極也更有建設性的處世方式。

Your whole world is about relationships, including relationships between you and other people, relationships between you and things,and relationshipsbetween you and nature, etc. With better understanding and more knowledge of everything, naturally you will learn to deal with the world in more positive and productive ways.

要是人們就像自己希望被對待的那樣對待他人，就像自己希望被世人所愛那樣去愛世人，這會是個多美好的世界啊！

What a wonderful world it would be if people treated others as how they wish to be treated， and loved others as much as they wish to be loved.