認為自己很重要

眾所周知，這條法則對我而言，是很容易執行的。不過，這麼做可是有充分理由的，下面就聽我一一道來。

與通常的觀點不同，我認為，擁有適度的自負，是一種好的品質。這是我們自我意識的中心，有助於我們找到目標。我記得自己曾對某個人說過，「告訴我一個認為自己不重要的人，我就會告訴你他有多麼失敗。」我挑起這個敏感話題，等待有人與我爭辯。後來，我意識到，我的基本思念是沒有錯的。

對自己的肯定，能使個體在有意識和意識兩方面保持平衡。肯定過頭或者不足，都是有害的。對自己肯定不足，意味著缺少生命活力。肯定過頭，又走向了傲慢自大、唯我獨尊。為了自己和他人的健康，要把對自我的認識調節到健康狀態。努力保持健全的心靈，是生活和經商過程中的明智之舉。

了解「自我」是怎麼運轉的，將是非常有用的。你注意到沒有：你只要對自己的對手說，「不管你說什麼，我都贊成」，你就能輕鬆擊敗他？這樣做，你就巧妙地使自己表現出沒有「自我」的姿態，於是輕而易舉地解除了對方的武裝，槍先佔了上風。你也因此得到內心深處的平靜，這可比遊戲人生的人打交道有意義多了。

有時，在與獨裁者或精神病患者打交道時，這些道理能派得上用場。但它更多地將用於你自己。它使你不斷地調整自己，繼續前行。

我們都聽說過培根的名言「知識就是力量」。在商界，靈活運用知識至關重要。在日常生活中，也同樣如此。你的心靈世界好比一座城堡，你要確保它的地基牢固。你和你身邊的人們，都會因此而獲益。

As we all know, this rule is easy to execute for me. However, there are good reasons to do this, listen to me here.

Unlike the usual point of view, I think it is a good quality to have a modest ego. This is the center of our self - consciousness, and helps us to find the goal. I remember saying to someone, " tell me a man who thinks he is not important, and I will tell you how he failed. " I provoke this sensitive topic and wait for someone to argue with me. Later, I realized that my basic thoughts were not wrong.

The affirmation of oneself can make the individual balance in consciousness and consciousness. It must be overdone or inadequate. it is harmful. Being sure to be lacking in yourself means lack of vitality. Must have turned to arrogance, and to arrogance, and only my own. To be healthy for yourself and others, adjust your understanding of yourself to your health. Efforts to maintain a sound mind is a wise move in the process of life and business.

It will be very useful to understand how " self" operates. You notice no: you just say to your opponent, " whatever you say, I agree," you can easily beat him? In this way, you cleverly make yourself show no " self" posture, so light and easy to disarm each other s armed, the gun took the upper hand first. You also get the inner peace of mind, which is much more meaningful than dealing with dance academy.

Sometimes these principles can come in handy when dealing with a dictator or a psychopath. But it will be more for yourself. It makes you constantly adjust yourself and move on.

We have all heard of bacon s famous saying, " knowledge is power. ". In the business sector, the flexibility to use knowledge is essential. This is the same in daily life. Your mind world is like a castle, you want to make sure its foundation is strong. You and the people around you will benefit from it.

每天向你分享一些成功的技巧、策略、戰略，把你引上成功之路，使其成為你的人生導師和職業嚮導，他也將巧妙地把你引向創造美好人生之路，沿著他你將到達職業生涯和人生的巔峰。

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