美國小孩9歲前需要掌握的25種禮節

天下 05-29

在美國絕大多數的孩子是有禮貌懂規矩，而且常常是很「有眼色」。見人打招呼，說話看著人，不搖頭晃腦，公共場合不大聲，幫別人開門等等，每個孩子都會有無知和調皮的時候，某一階段某些事情上的「沒規矩」，所以，美國家庭給孩子規定的這些禮儀，很值得我們學習借鑒！

作者：David Lowry博士

來源：家長雜誌

全文1329字，讀完大約2分鐘

01.

When asking for something,say 「Please.」

向別人詢問事情，說「請」。

02.

When receiving something,say 「thank you.」

當接受東西時，說「謝謝。」

03.

Don"t interrrupt grown-upswho are speaking with each other unless there is an emergency. They will noticeyou and respond when they are finished talking.

除非有意外，否則切勿打斷大人們的交談。大人談完話後會注意到你並回答你。

04.

If you do need to getsomebody"s attention right away, the phrase「excuse me」 is the most polite way for you toenter the conversation.

當你需要他人的注意或想與人談話，最禮貌的短語是「Excuse me」 (對不起，打擾了）。

05.

When you have any doubtdoing something, ask permission first. It can save you from many hours of grieflater.

當你不確信事情可不可以做，先問許可。這樣可以避免日後長時間的悔過之痛。

06.

The world is notinterested in what you dislike. Keep negative opinions to yourself,or betweenyou and your friends, and out of earshot of adults.

不要期望全世界都關心你是否喜歡一件事，將消極的想法留給自己或與朋友們保留，不要向大人們訴苦

。

07.

Don"t comment on otherpeople"s physical characteristics unless, of cuourse, it"s to compliment them,which is always welcome.

不要評論他人的外表，當然除非是好評，好評總受歡迎。

08.

When people ask you how you are, tell them and then ask them how they are.

當別人問你可好，回答他們，並問他們可好。

09.

when you have spent timeat your friend"s house, remember to thank his or her parents for having youover and for the good time you had.

當你到朋友家玩時，記住對你朋友的父母說謝謝邀請，也謝謝在一起的好時光。

10.

Knock on closed doors-andwait to see if there"s a response-before entering.

門若是關著的，請敲門，等著迴音，再進去。

11.

When you make a phonecall, introduce yourself first and then ask if you can speak with the personyou are calling.

當你打電話時，先介紹自己，然後問可否與你要通話的人交談

。

12.

Be appreciative and say 「thank you」 for anygift you receive. In the age of e-mail, a handwritten thank-you note can have apowerful effect.

收到任何禮物，都要感恩，並說「謝謝」。在有電子郵件的年代，手寫的「感謝卡」價值尤顯珍貴。

13.

Never use foul languagein front of adults. Grown-ups already know all those words, and they find themboring and unpleasant.

在大人面前絕不可以說粗話。大人了解這些髒話，他們覺得髒話沉悶又粗魯。

14.

Don"t call people meannames.

不要給人起低劣的綽號。

15.

Do not make fun of anyonefor any reason. Teasing shows others you are weak, and ganging up on someoneelse is cruel.

不要因任何原因取笑任何人。取笑人表明你很軟弱，與別人合夥來欺負人是很殘忍的事。

16.

Even if a play or anassembly is boring, sit through it quietly and pretend that you are interested.The performers and presenters are doing their best.

若戲劇或會議很枯燥，仍然要安靜地坐著，讓人感覺你是感興趣的。表演者和演講者都在盡全力。

17.

If you bump intosomebody, immediately say「excuse me.」

若不小心碰撞到別人，立即說「對不起」。